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生まれて初めて婚活サイトに登録してみた！

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婚活サイトや、マッチングアプリを結婚できる相手をみつける為に必死になってもがきながら利用しまくっている婚活ブロガーのロン毛レオです。

先日大雪で会社から途中帰宅した際に満員電車に揺られていると、とてもきれいな人が乗ってきてこの人が奥さんだったら毎日幸せなんだろうなと妄想をしていたんですが、いつか自分も婚活サービスを利用して先日見たお姉さんのような素敵な奥さんをゲットできるの夢見ています。

生まれて初めて婚活サイトを利用した時の自分はすぐ結婚できるんだろうなと思っていましたが、登録者の多さに逆に迷っていて、しっくりくることができていない現状です。長くなりましたが、今回は生まれて初めて婚活サイトに登録をした女性が実際に経験した出来事を紹介します。

今一緒に生活しているパートナーとはおよそ1年前に婚活サイトに登録した事がきっかけで出会い、とんとん拍子で物事が進んでいき人生を共に歩むまでに至りました。
婚活サイトに登録する前は仕事ばかりに尽力する毎日であり、異性との出会いが全く無い状態で会社と自宅の往復で一日が終わっていました。

業務量が多くて忙しかった時期が一段落し、落ち着いて周りを見渡してみるとそれまで交友関係を持っていた周囲の方々が皆結婚し、子供を育てていてすっかり家庭に入っているという様子でした。
それまで多忙な生活であったため気が付かなかったものの、現実を突きつけられたような気持ちになり、これまでには無い焦りを覚えるようになってしまいました。

焦ってしまう原因として最も大きかったのは、年齢を重ねていていわゆる結婚適齢期を過ぎてしまっていたためであり、同僚などが気を利かせて開いてくれた飲み会などでも年齢を言うと、良い雰囲気になっていた相手との距離感が大きくなるのが身を持って感じました。

自然と自宅で一人で過ごす時間が増えてしまっていた時、ネットサーフィンをしている際に見つけたのが婚活サイトであり、簡単に出会えるというワードに惹かれ登録を実行しました。
簡単に完了するという説明通り、難しい事やプライバシーに関わる躊躇してしまうような情報は入力しなくても登録完了させられ、すぐにデータが閲覧できるようになりました。

初めて婚活サイトに登録してみたので、自宅に居ながらにして異性の情報が見られて気になる方が居ればすぐにコンタクトが取れるというのは画期的に感じたのと同時に、頼もしく思えて気持ちに余裕が出ました。
すると程なくして一人の男性からメッセージが届いたのですが、すぐにあらゆる面で共通項が多い事が判明し実際に会ってみる事にしました。

言わずもがな現在の旦那なのですが、初対面なのにまるでかつての同級生に出会ったような懐かしさを覚え、婚活サイトで初めて出会ってから仲睦まじく夫婦生活を送っています。

体験談をこう多く読んでいると共通点があることに気付いたんですが、女性は特に仕事に追われ職場に出会いがない人が登録している傾向にあるんですね。

そう考えるとマッチングアプリに保育士や、幼稚園教諭の方、看護師の方がちらほらいる事に納得です。看護師の方はお医者さんと職場結婚できそうな気もしますが。。

この女性の体験談のように、婚活サイトで結婚相手を選ぶ際のポイントとして、やはり共通する趣味や活動をもっている人に惹かれる傾向があるので、自分もこれからいろんな人と共通点をみつけてもらえるように、浅く、広く手をだしてみようと思ってます(笑)

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