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婚活中の方必見！出会いがない人で立ち飲みバーがおすすめ

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休みさえあれば出会いのなさそうな居酒屋にいき、ビールをしこたまのんでしまう婚活ブロガーのレオです。
アダルトなイメージがあるバーでなかなか私はいくことが少ないですが、立ち飲みバーで出会いを見つけ、実際に結婚することができた女性の体験談を紹介します。皆さんもどんどん出会いをみつけ、婚活を頑張りましょう。

仕事が忙しいことを言い訳にして、出会いを求めることからすっかり遠ざかってしまった私は、気が付くと恋人いない歴が5年を超えてしまっていました。30歳を過ぎてからは、若い頃のように友人から合コンに誘われることもなくなり、出会いがないことを嘆きながら、自分からなかなか行動を起こすことができずにいました。結婚願望がないわけではなく、いずれは結婚をしたいと望みながら、積極的に婚活をしてこなかった私は、30歳を過ぎたことで次第に焦りをつのらせていきました。しかし、結婚をするには当然のことながら相手が必要で、相手すらいない私にとってはまずは婚活よりも恋活が必要でした。そのことを突き付けられていながら、何をどうすれば良いのかがわからずにいました。

そのようなことに悩んでいたある日、高校時代の友人と久しぶりに会うことになり、友人が行ったことのあるというバーへ連れて行ってもらいました。そのバーは立ち飲みバーになっていて、女性が1人でも気軽に入ることができる雰囲気でした。友人は何度か来ているそうで、立ち飲みバーが初めての私には心強い存在でした。そのバーは本格的なワインをリーズナブルな価格で楽しむことができるというもので、店内はとても混雑していました。隣の人と腕が触れるような賑わいの中、私は隣の男性から話しかけられました。その男性はワインに詳しく、おすすめのワインを教えてもらいました。とても話がユニークで、私はすっかり男性の話に夢中になってしまいました。気付くと友人も他の男性と話し込んでいたので、私たちは気兼ねなく話し続けることができました。

その男性こそが、現在の私の婚約者です。立ち飲みバーですっかり意気投合した私たちは、お互いの勤務先が近いということもあって、数日後にランチを共にしました。お酒の力を借りなくても楽しく話すことができ、共通の趣味があることもあってか、自然と交際が始まりました。まさか初めて訪れた立ち飲みバーで、生涯の伴侶となる人を見つけることができるとは思っておらず、その奇跡に感謝しています。

立ち飲みバーで結婚相手を見つけることができるんですね。立ち飲みバーで婚活や恋活、時間さえあれば、立ち飲みバーではなく通常のバーでもいいので、入り浸って男性から声をかけられるのをひたすら待つというのもいいかもしれないですね(笑)まさかバーで話かけられた人と結婚するとは思っていないでしょうから、どこに出会いがあるかわかりませんね。

ただ、比較的立ち飲みバーであれば、自然に異性と会話することもできるので、皆さんも婚活の為に、婚活サービスや、マッチングアプリだけでなく、実際に足を動かして出会いを見つけるというのもいいかもしれませんね。

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